changing my name...i don't remember it being this hard

so, i have spent the past three days trying to officially change my name back to my maiden name...okay, let me just say, that i do not remember it being so hard to change it to my married name...everyone was so congratulatory and willing to change it with a smile and now i am faxing my divorce decree all over the world and people keep telling me they are sorry...i am so not sorry and i am so glad to have my name back....but, i just didn't realize how many things i was going to have to change...drivers license, social security number, checking account, savings account, internet account, ebay, paypal, electric company, voters' registration card, all my bills that are directly withdrawn and why does everyone want my divorce decree???  i figured a new drivers license and social security card would trump and fix everything else...wrong and then everyone wants to know if i want to change my email address because my email has a derivation of my name in it...hell, i didn't even think about changing that too because that just seems like too much of a hassle...like this whole thing isn't a hassle...i wish i had never changed my name in the first place