facebook makes to be friends with people you just should be...

okay, i admit that i have a facebook...still...i did have a myspace and i loved it...oh, i had the best time blogging and playing apps and flirting massively with my jerkface but, i dumped it after it got old and not so fun any more plus those apps were getting out of hand and i was spending way too much time or rather wasting way too much time. 

i have been toying with dumping my facebook just about every other day...i am not really on there that often but occasionally i am a stalker and i just pop on and see what's going on and leave...but, there are a few people that i cannot contact any other way and i don't want to lose contact with them [ or maybe that's what i just tell myself to allow my voyeuristic tendencies to remain unchecked]

i really don't like the fact that facebook can reprint your words, images, poems, thoughts, ect, ect, ect. and maybe they have change regulations but, as soon as they can figure out a way to make a buck without too many lawsuits there will be books like "the best drunken pictures ever" or "stupid people's pics" or "new poets" or "emerging artists" or whatever they like because they own copies of everything that was uploaded at first until people caught on.

plus i have a profession that frowns on having a facebook and i have tried to keep my as clean as possible...once i graduated from college and was trying to get a job other than the local fast food market...so, there are no more pictures with plastic cups, beer bottle, booze, bongs, cigarettes, too much skin, boobs...or anything that is questionable or could be construed the wrong way because i can't lose a job from something as stupid as a photo that nobody really looks at anyway...and my friends know not to publish risque things but there are a few who continue leaving me wall posts that are inappropriate...for my job at least...hell, flattery will get them everywhere but, not if i get fired from a j.o.b.

my ex-husband actually friend requested me...i don't know what the hell he was thinking...come on, we aren't even friends in real life why the hell would i be friends with him in cyber life?????  and he is a friend whore...who has 897 friends...really???  they must not actually know him...because he is pretty annoying...then he tried to friend suggest his new fiancee to my son...plus he puts the most inappropriate bullshit on there that i am so glad my daughter doesn't have a facebook because i don't think she would ever recover from some of the shit my son says that his dad says online...idiot

then my ex's old girlfriend friend requested me...this was the chic that he left to start dating me [12 years ago]...why the hell would she want to chit-chat with me???

plus there are people from middle school and high school...middle school was 25 years ago and high school was 20...they didn't know me then and they certainly don't know me now but, we have to be friends because we went to the same high school and graduated the same year...why?  again, they didn't like or know me then and i am much more me now so i am pretty sure they won't like me now...and i don't give a shit and i don't think many of them have progressed passed high school with there ability to conversate about something intelligently.

maybe i should just get emails of the few people i don't want to lose contact with so i won't be stuck ignoring people from high school, my ex's old girlfriends, and my kids new step mom...